| Negative Words and Expressions | Positive Words and Expressions |
| Agitated | Happy |
| Alarmed | Aware |
| Ambivalence | Passion |
| Anger | Forbearance |
| Anguished | Determine the cause, and act upon it |
| Apathy | Enthusiastic |
| Apprehension | Confidence, self-trust, excited |
| At the mercy of | I will take control of |
| Awkward | Adept |
| Baffled | I will understand it |
| Bewildered | Become informed |
| Can't be trusted | Integrity, trust |
| Complain | Look for a solution |
| confused | Become informed |
| Cowardice | Courage |
| Despair | Hope |
| Desperate | Hopeful |
| Destiny, it won't happen | Faith, that it will happen |
| Disgusted | Understand it...then remove it |
| Disinterested | Learn, discover, explore, interested |
| Displeased | Do what's necessary to remove the displeasure |
| Dissatisfied | Change it so that it meets with your satisfaction |
| Distrust yourself | Confidence, self-trust |
| Disturbed | Understand and/or remove the cause of the disturbance |
| Doubt | Confidence |
| Dread | Courage |
| Envy | I will turn the envy into desire and then pursue it, or let it go |
| Evil | Good |
| Eye contact avoidance | Eye contact attainment |
| Fail, as in give up or not try | Succeed by never giving up |
| Fear, afraid | Anticipation, excitement |
| Fidgety | Easy, calm |
| Follower | Leader |
| Frightened | Courageous |
| Frown | Smile |
| Futile | Make it effective, or move on |
| Give up, not try | Accomplish |
| Give up, not try | Achieve |
| Give up, not try | Flourish |
| Give up, not try | Overcome |
| Give up, not try | Prevail |
| Give up, not try | Thrive |
| Greedy | Generous |
| Grief | I will work through it and not around it |
| Grudge | I will find the source, deal with it, then let it go |
| Guilt | I will understand the source, deal with it, then let it go |
| Hate | Tolerance |
| Helpless | I will take control of my life |
| Hesitant | Certain |
| Hindered | See to it that the cause of the hindrance is removed |
| I am a victim | I am in control |
| I am scared of change | I look forward to change, it may bring new and greater opportunities. |
| I can't do it | I can do it |
| I don't believe | I believe in me |
| I don't have the knowledge to do it | I will obtain the knowledge to do it |
| I don't know how | I will find out how |
| I feel like a loser | I feel like a winner |
| I give up | I will never, ever, ever, give up - persistence |
| I have an excuse | I have no excuse, I will do better next time |
| I have no time to do that | I will make the time to do that |
| I long for the past | I look forward to the future |
| I may fail | I will succeed, maybe not this time, but next time |
| I may fall | I will always get up again |
| I play it safe | I take risks |
| I see a problem in every opportunity | I see an opportunity in every problem |
| I was never able to do it | I never wanted to do it; I never thought I could |
| I will try to do it | I will do it |
| I'm a loser | I'm a winner |
| I'm bored | I will make my own fun |
| I'm no good | I'm very good |
| I'm not worthy | I am worthy |
| I'm scared | I'm excited |
| I'm too poor | I will work with what I have to gain what I want |
| If I could get a better job | I will look for a better job |
| If I could meet the right people | I am only 7 people away from anyone on earth |
| If I could only do it again | I will do it much better next time |
| If I could only get a break | I will make my own breaks |
| If I could only save some money | I will find a way to save money |
| If I did not have to work so hard | I will work smarter or will find a different line of work |
| If I had been born rich | I will get what I need |
| If I had only embraced past opportunities | Starting now I will find new opportunities |
| If I only had a business of my own | I will start my own business and I will make it work |
| If I only had somebody to help me | I will obtain what I need |
| If I only had the talent | I will discover my talents |
| If I only were younger | My life starts now |
| If I were educated | I will go back to school |
| If I were in better health | I will work with what I have |
| If I were not so fat | I will lose weight or I will accept myself |
| If I were not so unlucky | Luck is giving up control...I will take the control back |
| If I were only sure of myself | I will change my attitude so that I can believe in myself |
| If my past did not haunt me | I will not live in the past, I will live in the present |
| If only I had a better personality | My personality is a function of my attitude...I will change my attitude |
| If other people understood me | I will understand myself so that I can understand others |
| If others didn't keep me down (victim) | No one can keep me down unless I let them |
| If things were different | I will make things different |
| If times were better | I will make the best of the time we are in |
| Immoral | Moral |
| Impatient | I will become more patient |
| Imprisoned | Freedom |
| Inconsiderate | Considerate |
| Inconsistent | Consistent |
| Indecision | Decisive, confidence, self-trust |
| Indecisive | Decisive |
| Indifference | Ambitious |
| Insecure | Secure |
| Intimidated | Emboldened |
| Irresponsible | Responsible |
| It won't happen | It will happen |
| It's no fun | I will make it fun |
| It's too difficult | If it's possible, I will do it |
| It's too hard to do | It will be easy, once I have learned how |
| Jealous | Trusting |
| Jittery | Easy, calm |
| Lie, false, dishonest | Truth, honest |
| Look down | Look ahead |
| Loss | Profit |
| Lost | I will find my way |
| Mad | Foregiving |
| Negative mental attitude, doomed to fail | Positive mental attitude, born to win |
| Nervous | Courageous |
| On edge | Calm |
| Overwhelmed | I will organize |
| Pain | I will find a way to relieve it, or I will deal with it |
| Panicky | Calm |
| Part of the problem | Part of the solution |
| Passive | Assertive |
| Perplexed | I will get clarification |
| Procrastination | Expedite |
| Resentful | I will find the source, deal with it, then let it go |
| Restless | Calm, courageous |
| Revenge | Forgiveness |
| Satisfied with mediocrity | Strives for excellence |
| Shaky | Calm |
| Sickened | I will deal with the cause, or I will remove the cause |
| Skeptical | I will do what it take to remove the doubt, or move on |
| Strained | Easy and relaxed, with confidence |
| Succumb | Surmount |
| Superstitious | I will take control of my life |
| Swamped | I will organize and set priorities |
| Tense | Calm |
| Terrified | I will understand if the source is within my control or not, then deal with it accordingly |
| That's an obstacle that I can't get around | That is a challenge to be vanquished |
| That's not my job | Let me do it for you |
| There is no way | I will find a way |
| Thoughtless | Thoughtfulness |
| Timid | Bold |
| Tormented | I will deal with the source of the torment and/or remove it from my mind |
| Uncomfortable | Comfortable |
| Uncommitted | Committed |
| Uneasy | Easy |
| Unfair | Overcome it |
| Unfocused | Focused |
| Ungrateful | I am grateful for what I have |
| Unhappy | Happy |
| Unlucky | I make my own luck |
| Unpopular | I am responsible for what I project |
| Un-prosperous | Prosperous |
| Unreliable | Reliable |
| Un-resourceful | Resourceful |
| Unsure | I am very sure of myself |
| What would others say | What would I say if I don't ... |
| Worry | Confidence, self-trust, action |
