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To avoid any confusion I thought it appropriate to list the names (cyber) I go by.
My Names:
Mel Kaye-(my real name), MondayMorningPower,
MMP, Killeris-(Technorati name), Powerkis-(Wordpress name), SiFiBiBi-(Original Blogger name)
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Attitude, The Ultimate Power-(Blog name)
MondayMorningPower-(Blog AKA)
It's All About Attitude-(Blog AKA)

My email address: info (at) MondayMorningPower dot Com

Why read Monday Morning Power?

You will find a consistency and a focus in all of my content that can change your attitude which can fuel a positive change in your life, if you want it to. If you are happy with your attitude and your life and see no reason for changing, then you either already have a PMA (Positive Mental Attitude), or you are a victim and want to hold onto your misery. These postings will then serve to fortify the person with PMA, or, hopefully, convince the "victim" that there is a better way. This site will contain essays, poems, stories, humor and links, all with the same goal: The pursuit, capture, care and feeding of a Positive Mental Attitude. I have had readers tell me that they have spent hours on my site and feel great about themselves both during and after. I log onto my own site frequently to help fuel my attitude; I hope you will as well.

To My Fellow Bloggers.....

Please feel free to link my blog to yours. A dose of "Monday Morning Power" would bolster any blog, except for those that profess doom, destruction and the end of the world. If you want to use any of my content in your blog, please ask first via email or by comment. I will need to review your blog for appropriate content and then give you written permission as well as being sure that you link back.

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A dose of "Monday Morning Power" and a cup of coffee and you're ready for whatever awaits you. At a minimum you should read this blog on Monday Mornings. However, there will be new posts daily. Whenever you want to feel good, tune in and help yourself to some "Monday Morning Power." Please share this site with everyone you care about. I welcome your comments and suggestions

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My goal is to help my clients navigate the “residential investment property” market; make some money and have some fun in the process. This real estate market is ripe for the investor. In addition, I would like to help the home buyer and home seller. I am part of an 80,000+ agent network that spans all of North America. Being on the “inside” I can find you the “right” agent to handle your specific needs no matter where in North America you may reside. I have been in and arround the real estate market for most of my professional life and want to be your resource for making money in this market. I have been negotiating all of my life and want to negotiate great deals for you. Following is my contact information and my philosophies: Mel Kaye (Broker Associate) Keller Williams Realty Direct: PCH.MEL.KAYE (724.635.5293) Mobile: 805.300.1769 Fax: 888.371.1190 Email: YESmelYES@gmail.com Website: http://melkaye.com Skype: Mel.Kaye Lic #: 00742678 340 N. Westlake Blvd., Suite 100 Westlake Village, CA 91362


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This Site is dedicated to the development of your ATTITUDE, which is your ULTIMATE POWER. The content includes: Essays, Articles, Poems, Links, Inspirational stories, Quotes, Research, Music, an original series called the "Process" and Laughter....all focused on the
Pursuit, Capture, Care and Feeding of a Positive Mental Attitude.

Sunday, June 17, 2007

Are You Prepared For Success? (Installment #14)



(If this is your first time on this site, please begin with
"Are You Prepared For Success [Introduction])

At this point you, hopefully, realize how important positive attitudes are. You may even be saying to yourself "If that's all it takes, I'll start thinking positive thoughts right now." I wish it was that easy. If it was that easy, why are you still searching?

A life spent in making mistakes is not only more honorable but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.

-George Bernard Shaw

The positive attitudes have to be born and nurtured in the deepest recesses of your mind, of your entire being...in the same place that your emotions come from. Remember, when we discussed the dark place within us that is filled with demons and monsters... well, at the successful completion of this program, you will be able to go back there and see that what you were scared of was nothing but half-truths and lies. In fact, it is this same place, that was once filled with demons and monsters, that you will now fill with soaring eagles, courageous lions, confidence and self-belief.

It is virtually impossible for negative and positive emotions to occupy the mind at the same time. One or the other must dominate both your conscious and your subconscious. It is your responsibility to make sure that you use the repetition aspect of this program to insure that the positive messages and emotions dominate your mind. With the constant repetition of these rhyming poems fed by passion, eventually, positive feelings will dominate your mind so completely that the negatives feelings from your past cannot re-enter.

There's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.

-Aldoux Husley

He who conquers others is strong;

He who conquers himself is mighty.

-Lao-Tzu

You will be able to take responsibility for your actions and thus, own your successes. If you stumble (formerly known as fail) along the way, you will know to take responsibility for it, learn from it, and quickly move on to success.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

-Malcomb S. Forbes

Don't hurry through The Process. Take your time; enjoy it; savor it; engage it with your whole being. The poems are a compilation of great motivational rhymes written by some of the masters of motivation and insight (some slightly altered to fit the profile of this process), as well as numerous original rhymes, written specifically for The Process. The rhymes that I have altered and created are by no means the end all. I strongly encourage you to create your own. The creative process has far greater power than reading someone else’s work. After you have read the rhymes in Section (II), and even during the reading, I, again, encourage you to create your own. By know you must have a pretty good understanding of what the differences are between positive and negative messages. The goal and the difference between Section (II) and Section (III) is OWNERSHIP. Again, you have to own the attitude; not borrow them, not taking them out and admiring them, not even leasing them, but OWNING them.

Remember, I am dedicated to the Pursuit, Capture, Care and Feeding of a Positive Mental Attitude. Once you have read my final installment, it’s not over. If you take it seriously and have ownership of a PMA (positive mental attitude) you will have completed the pursuit and capture aspects. You then enter the Care & Feeding stage. I will have much more to say about this at the end of the process.

Every day, in every way, I am getting better and better.

-Émile Coué

Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested.

-Francis Bacon

Have faith. Faith can be the strongest and most productive of the emotions. When reading these rhymes, know that they will counteract the negative attitudes that may be controlling your life. Have total faith that you will be able to eliminate the negative feeling that you have about yourself. Show it and feel it in your readings. The faith that you need will become stronger each time you read the rhymes. Using all three legs of the "Empowerment Triad," passion, pleasure and repetition, is what will ensure that this program will work for you, and in the least amount of time. It's up to you! I make no guarantees, because I can't be there with you to ensure that you follow the procedure. You will get out of it only what you are willing to put into it.

I am an optimist. It does not seem too much use being anything else.

-Winston Churchill

Faith is the strongest and most productive of the emotions.

-Napoleon Hill

The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather in a lack of will.

-Vincent T. Lombardi

The next installment will contain the first of the poems (both the male and the female versions. Have faith. It will work if you want it to. It's time to recognize, understand and take control of your life. It's time to let go of the past. It's time to cleanse yourself. It's time to soar like an eagle and "Live your dreams."

No bird soars too high, if he soars with his own wings.

-William Blake

Do it trembling if you must, but do it!

-Emmet Fox

Congratulations, you have completed Section I of "The Process." I strongly recommend that you go back and re-read all 14 installments before moving on to Section II. It will probably be a few days or so before I begin posting Section II. This will give you time to re-read.

By Mel Kaye

Copyright © MondayMorningPower, All rights Reserved

Article / Essays - Index

Humor - Index

CURRENT AS OF 9/9/08







The Process "Are You Prepared For Success?" - Index

CURRENT AS OF 07/21/08

The Empowerment Process:
This process is currently in the process of being posted in installments. For those of you who are wondering if this has any religious connotations.....it does not. This process is all about casting off the role of "victim" and taking on the role of "controller"; taking total control of your own life. To accomplish this I use a combination of "Passion," Repetition", and "Pleasure."

Each installment is linked to the next. Where applicable I duplicate installments into a "male version" and a "female version." Why I do this will become abundantly clear when you get to "Section III."


The Empowerment Process
is divided into three Sections:

  • "Section I" - Preparation & Explanation
  • "Section II" - Understanding & Acceptance
  • "Section III" - Ownership & Becoming

Side Notes:

Introduction:


Section I - Explanation & Preparation:


Section II - Understanding & Acceptance:


Section III - Ownership & Becoming:

The Unusual - Index

Poems - Index

Motivational Quotes - Index

Motivational Quotes (5)

America is too great for small dreams.
Ronald Reagan

A wise person does at once, what a fool does at last.
Both do the same thing; only at different times.
Baltasar Gracian

We are all faced with a series of great opportunities
brilliantly disguised as unsolvable problems.
John W. Gardner

The great question is not whether you have failed,
but whether you are content with failure.
William Shakespeare

The fastest way to succeed is to double your failure rate.
Thomas J. Watson

Caring is a valuable business advantage.
Scott Johnson

Most of my advances were by mistake.
You uncover what is when you get rid of what isn't.
Buckminster Fuller

You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take.
Wayne Gretzky

A year from now you will wish you had started today.
Karen Lamb

There has never been another you.
With no effort on your part you were born to be something very special and set apart.
What you are going to do in appreciation of that gift is a decision only you can make.
Dan Zadra

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed
is more important than any other one thing.
Abraham Lincoln

One may not reach the dawn save by the path of the night.
Kahlil Gibran


"Successes like pleasing results . . .
Failures like pleasing methods"
Cavett Robert

"If we study the lives of great men and women carefully and unemotionally
we find that, invariably, greatness was developed, tested and revealed
through the darker periods of their lives. One of the largest tributaries of
the RIVER OF GREATNESS is always the STREAM OF ADVERSITY."
Cavett Robert

Everything which is properly business we must keep carefully separate from life.
Business requires earnestness and method; life must have a freer handling.
Goethe

We become what we think about.
Earl Nightingale

I'd rather attempt to do something great and fail
than to attempt to do nothing and succeed.
Robert Schuller

The best way out is always through.
Robert Frost

Spectacular achievement is always preceded by spectacular preparation.
Robert Schuller

See Motivational Quote Index for more quotes.

Saturday, June 16, 2007

Larry The Cable Guy (38 hours labor)

Are You Prepared For Success? (Installment #13)



(If this is your first time on this site, please begin with "Are You Prepared For Success [Introduction.])

To begin the process in earnest you should start by going back and re-reading all of the prior installments, including, and especially, the quotes. Try to understand what each quote is saying, and what truths they are revealing to you. It is very important that you are prepared before moving on to "Section (II)".

Certain brief sentences are peerless in their ability to give one the feeling that nothing remains to be said.

-Jean Rostand

When you have reread the previous installments you should read the rhymes in "Section (II)" (future installments) slowly and carefully so that you understand what they are saying to you. Read them every morning, as soon as you wake up, and every evening, as the last thing you do before you go to sleep. Read them as many times as possible during the day. Read them aloud, with passion to drive the messages home, and with absolute faith that the positive, success oriented, new messages will replace the negative, failure directed, old messages. Know that your desire to succeed is absolute and with the proper attitudes implanted you will succeed in whatever you attempt.

...If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with success unexpected in common hours.

-Henry David Thoreau

No man is free who is not master of himself.

-Epictetus

The price of greatness is responsibility.

-Winston Churchill

Many receive advice, only the wise profit from it.

-Syrus

The harder I work, the luckier I get.

-Samuel Goldwyn

The purpose behind "Section (II)" is understanding and acceptance. You will need to have an open mind and remember why you are participating in this program. Chances are that you are looking for that illusive thing called "success" and you realize that something has to change in order for you to achieve it. So don't resist the messages within the rhymes. Let them flow into your subconscious. You will know, at your deepest level, that you need to let them in and accept them. The more you read them (repetition) and the more passion you put into the readings the sooner you will believe the messages, and the closer you will be to attaining success.

It shouldn't be difficult for anyone to resist temptation to force himself into the pattern of being average. One needs only to remember that a groove may be safe-but as one wears away at it, the grove becomes first a rut and finally a grave..

-J. Paul Getty

Once you understand what messages the rhymes are relating to you and you’re ready to accept the messages as truths that can be yours, you will be ready to move onto "Section (III)".

Man's mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimentions.

-Oliver Wendell Holmes

The transition between "Section (II)" and "Section (III)" is one of the most important aspects of The Process. It's the difference between:

  • Knowing how to sing and singing
  • Planning to take a vacation and taking a vacation
  • Wanting a new car and owning a new car

Thoughts determine what you want…

Action determines what you get!

-Monday Morning Power

The messages within these rhymes are intended to EMPOWER you so that you can take control of your life and achieve the success that you deserve. As you acquire the positive attitudes you also gain the complete confidence that nobody knows what you want, or what you are able to accomplish, better than you do. This is part of the control over your own life that you will gain.

People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates.

-Thomas Szasz

By Mel Kaye (MondayMorningPower)
Copyright © MondayMorningPower, All rights Reserved

Friday, June 15, 2007

Success Requirements, Apply Within, by Dwayne Gilbert

Winners don't wait for chances, they take them!

This article by Dwayne Gilbert is true, however, in my opinion, he oversimplifies the process. I believe that in order to obtain "success", which is everybody's right, you must be prepared....and not everyone is. Read this article and file it away until you are prepared. My series on "Are You Prepared For Success?" should be mandatory reading if you have any doubts whatever about your ability to "succeed." On the other hand, if you are truly "without doubt," then, as the article states, "Just Do It."

Following is Dwayne's:

If your like everyone else, there is more you want out of life. A sense of accomplishment and success that so few people get to realize in their lifetime. The positive side is that you can have, do, or be anything you want to be. The other side is that it really is fairly simple to have the life of your dreams. Not easy necessarily, but simple. The down side is that so few people are willing to do what it takes to discover that success for themselves.

There are only a handful of traits that you must develop within yourself to be able to discover the success you seek. With the right discipline in these areas and the constant application of the following principles, you cannot help but be success at anything you apply yourself to. Develop these concepts into habits, and the world will be at your command.

The first trait that is absolutely necessary for success is commitment. Just as getting married involves a commitment for it to be successful, everything else, including making money, involves a commitment. Most people fail at becoming wealthy or successful at anything simply because they do not have a commitment. They want something, but it is only a fancy for having it, not a deep seated desire. A desire that is so strong and so driving that they are willing to go through anything to get what they want. If we were to compare these desires to fires, successful people would have a burning desire for success
and what they want that would be equal to a forest fire taking up half the state of California. Most people are lucky to have a campfire for desire. Develop your desire to live the life of your dreams, and nothing can stop you.

The second thing that is necessary for you to be successful is to know what it is you want. Less than 5% of people out there take the time to write down what it is they want. Even fewer know exactly what it is they want and when they will have it. You must know what you want, and exactly when you want, period. You must write it down and review on a regular basis. If you don't you are on the quickest path to failure.

The third trait that so few people develop is a plan. Many people either do nothing, or just do anything. A good plan helps keep you on track with what you want to accomplish and where you want to go. It also allows you to know when corrections need to be made to keep on track and exactly where you are on the course. Just as a map lets you know what highway needs to be taken next to get from New York City to San Francisco. Without a map, one could just start traveling west, but it could takes weeks, or even months to get to California. Take the time to create a map to help you get to where you want to go, but leave it flexible enough for the inevitable bumps and detours that will happen.

The fourth trait necessary to have is a strong heart. No matter what path one takes, if it is outside the social norm of what others think is possible or acceptable, there will be criticism. There will always be nay-sayers. There will always be friends and family that think you dream to big. People who think you couldn't possibly have what you want, or that normal people could never be wealthy or happy. You must become like steel. You must take your mind away from these people and ignore everything they tell you. You must keep your eye on the prize and keep going no matter what. You must develop a desire and driving force that will blow past these sort of people.

The final trait necessary for success is action. So many people dream big, but never take a single step in the direction of accomplishment. A desire, a good plan, knowing what you want. All of that is useless and nothing more than pipe dreams if you don't take action toward accomplishing it. Taking action alone with a strong desire is all that is really necessary for success. However, a good plan and the ability to stay focused on the goal helps make the path quicker and easier. There are people who take no action, and people who do nothing but take action. Some people are really good at taking action, again and again and again. They start this, then they start something else, then they move onto another thing. Those types of people never get anything done either because they are always starting new projects. So get started, follow your plan, and stay the course. Be sure to do something every single day to move you closer to your goals.

So success is really that simple. Decide what it is you want and write it down. Review that list on a regular basis. Develop a driving force within yourself to have what you want out of this life, and refuse to settle for even 1% less than that. Develop a plan with specific dates for when you will get what you want, and work the plan. Develop the
ability to take your mind off of any negativity that could hamper your success. Become like solid steel and stand strong and firm for what you want and believe. Finally, take action on your dreams and goals. Don't hesitate, don't delay, don't even wait one second. Take action, and take it now. As Nike would say, just do it!

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Are You Prepared For Success? (Installment #12)


(If this is your first time on this site, please begin with "Are You Prepared For Success [Introduction.])

Now that you have been introduced to the basic concepts behind the process and the "Empowerment Triad" (passion, pleasure and repetition), it's time to start focusing on what's involved in the process itself.

This will require dedication on your part. If given the chance to work, the process will work. However, you have to be an active participant. There will be no embarrassing moments because the process is designed to be completed in private. As you continue through the process you will realize that embarrassment and self-consciousness is a hindrance to the achievement of success. When the process has been completed, being self conscious will be one of the negative attitudes that you will have replaced.

What's gone and what's past help

Should be past grief.

-William Shakespeare "The Winter's Tale"

You will need to maintain an open mind while participating in this process, and try as hard as possible to avoid having any of the new attitudes filtered through the old negative ones. By the end of the process, after successful completion, the old negative attitudes should be relegated to the past, not to encroach on the present or the future.

The past is a foreign country: they do things differently there.

-L. P. Hartley

Let the past drift away with the water.

-Japanese saying

The process, by necessity, needs to be in two versions:

  1. The "female" version
  2. The "male" version

It is VERY IMPORTANT that you use the correct version. Each version is set up the same way, but with subtle differences that are critical to the successful completion of the process. In order for the process to work, you will have to take ownership of the new attitudes. This means that the messages must be gender specific or it would be very difficult for, as an example, a woman to accept and own messages within versus that refer to "him," "his" or "man." For a woman, the references need to be "she," "her" or "woman."

It is also important to understand that the process is divided into three sections:

  • "Section (I)", which you are nearing the end of, is the "Explanation and Preparation" section.
  • "Section (II)", the "You" section, or the "Understanding and Acceptance" Section.
  • "Section (III)", the "I" section, or the "Ownership and Becoming" section.

By Mel Kaye

Copyright © MondayMorningPower, All rights Reserved

Go to Installment #13

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

You Might Be A Redneck If..............(276-300 of 299+1)

Redneck Ocean Liner
First 25
276 The best way to keep things cold is to leave'em in the shade.
277 The neighbors started a petition over your Christmas lights.
278 You prominently display a gift you bought at Graceland.
279 The diploma hanging in your den contains the words "Trucking Institute".
280 Your favorite Christmas present, was a painting on black velvet.
281 You had to remove a toothpick for wedding pictures.
282 You've ever used a weed eater indoors.
283 You look upon a family reunion as a chance to meet `Ms. Right'
284 You have to go outside to get something out of the 'fridge.
285 You have a very special baseball cap, just for formal occasions.
286 You consider pork and beans to be a gourmet food.
287 You have to go down to the creek to take a bath.
288 You participate in the "who can spit tobacco the farthest contest".
289 You roll you hair with soup cans and wash it once a year.
290 You have a picture of Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, or Elvis over your fireplace.
291 You just bought an 8-track player to put in your car.
292 The theme song at your high school prom was `Friends in Low Places'
293 It's Easier to spray weed killer on your lawn than mow it.
294 You think that John Deere Green, Ford Blue, and Primer Gray are the three of the primary colors.
295 Your idea of talking during sex is "Ain't no cars coming, baby!"
296 Your vehicle has a two-tone paint job--primer red and primer gray.
297 Foreplay consists of slipping off her saddle
298 Ya can't get married to yer sweetheart cause there is a law against it.
299 Ya celebrate groundhog day (cause ya believe in it!!)
300 You fish in your above-ground pool, especially if you catch something!

Thank you Jeff Foxworth